"I am becoming more and more convinced that there is something wrong with the way I live. Something false about everything I do."
"Controllers, abusers and manipulative people don’t question themselves. They don’t ask themselves if the question is them. They always say the problem is someone else."
"Let me tell you this: if you meet a loner, no matter what they tell you, it’s not because they enjoy solitude. It’s because they have tried to blend into the world before, and people continue to disappoint them."
Let’s rewind a little. November always make me constantly reminded of the pouring rain, wet shoes, cold hands, umbrella, coat, and of course you.
Today is November 16 again and Allison Anders is having birthday and i don’t care. Birthday is not something big. Everyday we’re getting older. Every day is damn hard (as we grow older). And we all know that being old is never easy. But the good things are someone is praying for your happiness out there and be thankful for your presence. So be happy today and always. My birthday wish for you of happiness and more, may your days be full of what you’re thankful for.
Remember I’m so thankful that you are the one in the entire world that truly allows me to be myself. And I feel it’s possible to fall in love over and over again. Not because I have fallen out of love, but because you taught me a new way to love. I love the highs, the lows and the inbetween, with you. Because of all that again, I’m so thankful you are born. Thanks for making me smile and for that I owe you the world.
Let’s watch the sunset and fall in love again.
She’s just a minor character in everyone’s movie.
"Just look at life with more playful eyes. Don’t be serious. Seriousness becomes like a blindness. Don’t pretend to be a thinker, a philosopher. Just simply be a human being. The whole world is showering its joy on you in so many ways, but if you are too serious, you cannot open your heart."
"But I guess ultimately what scares me about marriage is where do you find this person? You know a lot of times, most successful relationships, people meet through work, school, mutual friends. But what’s most interesting to me is when people just meet in life, just randomly. You know, I have a friend, he got married, I asked him like “Hey, uh, where’d you meet your wife?” He was like “I was leaving Bed, Bath & Beyond. I was looking for my car - I drive a gray Prius. I saw a different gray Prius, I thought it was mine, I walked up to it, I realized I had the wrong car, but I bumped into Carol, we started talking, that was that”. That’s unbelievable. Think about all the random factors that had to come together to make this one moment possible - this one moment that changed these two people’s entire lives: First off, this guy has to live in this particular town. Then he has to get a gray Prius. Then he has to need to go to Bed, Bath & Beyond. Then he has to go to that particular Bed, Bath & Beyond. Then there has to be another guy who also lives in town, also drives a gray Prius, also needs to go to Bed, Bath & Beyond, also goes to that particular Bed, Bath & Beyond at around the same time. Then they have to both park somewhat near each other, my friend has to leave before the other guy leaves, see the wrong Prius, think it’s his, walk up to it. Then the woman, Carol, needs to be near the wrong gray Prius for a million other random reasons. They bump into each other, they start talking, their entire lives are changed. That’s the most amazing and terrifying thing about life. It is, cause the amazing thing is that at any moment, any one of us can have that moment that totally changes our lives. You could be leaving the show tonight, bump into someone… it could change your life. You don’t know, that could happen. The terrifying thing is… what if we’re all supposed to be at Bed Bath & Beyond right now?"
"Your feelings are valid. You have every right to feel whatever emotion you want. You aren’t being dramatic. You aren’t over exaggerating. You’re feeling. And that’s okay."
